Be yourself when you present.
Posted in Uncategorized on February 1, 2008 by Gavin
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Every time I run a presentation skills workshop I get asked questions like;
- What is the “right” way to present?
- Should I use humour?
- Should I move or stand still?
My answer is always the same. “It depends!”
This is because I believe that there is no one right style. What is much more important is that the presenter comes across as authentic. If you try to be something you are not rarely works.
Interestingly though, this advice is not a “get out of jail free” card for nervous or reluctant presenters. Nervousness is not your natural or authentic self, it is a learned response that is ultimately limiting and can be unlearned.
Being authentic actually means opening up to your audience and revealing some of the facets of your personality that you may have previously learned to keep hidden. Your emotions, your passions, your sense of humour, your vulnerability.
The bad news is that you have to be prepared to take a small but real risk.
The good news is that the rewards are massive!
Being authentic has huge payoffs in terms of your ability to inspire and influence others and, perhaps even more importantly is helps dissolve much of the internal tension and stress that we create for ourselves when we try to be someone or something we are not.
Do yourself and your audiences a big favour - bring more of your true, authentic self to everything that you do. Remember, life is not a rehearsal!
February 2nd, 2008 at 5:40 am
Ugh. The things people think they’re “supposed” to do as presenters just end up turning them into robots. The fewer affected mannerisms and the more emotional connection with the audience, the better!
February 19th, 2008 at 8:10 pm
Your post reminds me of the Toastmasters contests, whereby you can see contestents copying the style of previous speakers. Eg: That guy is going a Darren le Croix, or he is doing a David Brooks etc.
Be authentic to yourself, and remember to find your own voice!
Craig