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		<title>Life lessons from the movies</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Feb 2011 14:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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The Kings Speech
<p>Every so often I watch a film that  proves to be a fantastic source of learning and inspiration as well as entertainment.</p>
<p>Recently I saw the Kings speech and it really moved  me.     Afterwards I started to wonder what it was that made it so powerful.</p>
<p>The acting was superb and believable.   The Prince&#8217;s  frustration with his inability to speak fluently in public was palpable, and this made a wonderful contrast with the closing [...]<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/inspiration/lessons-kings-speech/">Life lessons from the movies</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>Be present to influence, communicate or present well</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Oct 2010 10:20:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The art of being fully present in the moment isn't just an esoteric spiritual skill.  Its a vital ability that can help you communicate, present and ell more effectively by connecting better with your clients<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/presentation-skills/present-influence-communicate-present/">Be present to influence, communicate or present well</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>Developing a passion for what you are presenting</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Sep 2010 08:46:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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<p>The most engaging presenters are those who are both knowledgeable and passionate about their content.   We can tell that they are passionate because of things like their animation, energy, vocal variety, eye contact and enthusiasm.</p>
<p>But what about when you have to present information that you are not passionate about?    Well in an ideal world I would be tempted to say don&#8217;t present it at all.   Of course this may be  unrealistic, especially the presentation is part [...]<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/presentation-skills/passionatepresentations/">Developing a passion for what you are presenting</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>Positivity and presentation confidence</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 14:54:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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<p>A  recent comment to one of my earlier posts by Stephen Hendren prompted me to review some of the research on positivity and performance.
Thanks to his post, I found a great video interview by Positivity researcher Barbara Fredrickson.  I thought you might like it so I have included it in this post.  Dr Fredrickson&#8217;s key message is that there is a proven 3:1 &#8220;positivity ratio&#8221; needed to generate the positive emotions required to enhance self esteem and personal performance.</p>


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<p>Positivity and presentation confidence [...]<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/presentation-skills/positivity-presentation-confidence/">Positivity and presentation confidence</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>How do you develop presence?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 08:43:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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<p>When I ask the people who attend my workshops what is the difference that makes the difference between and average speaker and a great speaker they often come up &#8220;presence&#8221;.
When I go on to ask them to be a bit more specific about what they mean by presence, they tend to struggle.</p>
<p>So what exactly is  presence? And more importantly how can anyone develop this quality in themselves?  Well I am not sure I know all the answers but [...]<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/presentation-skills/how-do-you-develop-presence/">How do you develop presence?</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s not the economy, its your philosophy that really matters</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 11:14:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this short post, Influencing and presentation expert Gavin Meikle discusses the importance of attitude to business survival and outlines a clear and practical three step approach to upgrade your attotude in the moment.<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/influencing/sell/">It&#8217;s not the economy, its your philosophy that really matters</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>Presentation emotion &#8211; the key element!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 17:43:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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<p>Why is it that so many business presentations are dry, dull and innefective?  Well it could be the presenter&#8217;s delivery style or it could be the tedious and wordy powerpoint slides they insist on using but I think there is an even more dangerous principle at work here.</p>
<p>I think that most business presenters think that emotions are left at the door when one walks into the office.  People want facts right?   Disspassionate, rational arguements supported by [...]<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/presentation-skills/presentation-emotion-key-element/">Presentation emotion &#8211; the key element!</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>Watch this presentation and put your &#8220;big ears&#8221; on</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 08:05:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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<p>This video clip serves four purposes for students of presentation and public speaking skills:</p>

 It demonstrates the value of a clearly structured message
It shows how things like eye contact, body language and vocal variety engage the audience
It shows how simple visual aids with well chosen images add to the presentation
It contains a valuable message that we all should learn and take heed of.

<p>Enjoy</p>
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<p>Watch this presentation and put your &#8220;big ears&#8221; on is a post from: Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</p>
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		<title>How Do You Build Confidence in Nervous Presenters and Speakers</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 14:07:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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<p>I have just returned from a camping holiday in Dorset and whilst away I had the delight of lighting and then tending a camp fire every evening.   As I was gazing into the embers one evening it suddenly struck me that there are a number of similarities between lighting a camp fire and developing someone’s presentation or public speaking confidence.</p>
<p>As anyone who has tried to light a fire will know it is not always an easy job.   If the sticks [...]<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/presentation-skills/build-confidence-nervouse-presenters-speakers/">How Do You Build Confidence in Nervous Presenters and Speakers</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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		<title>A cheeky sales approach that worked</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 19:12:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gavin Meikle</dc:creator>
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<p>Today I was phoned by a guy who I have met on a couple of occasions at local networking events.  he works for a company called the disc directory, a local on-line business directory covering Portsmouth and Southampton.
<p class="floatleft"></p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m pretty hard on tele-sales people but his approach was so refreshing that I just had to post on it.   He called me up, started by saying something like &#8221; Remember the good looking guy who&#8217;s been bumping into  you around [...]<p><a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk/influencing/cheeky-sales-approach-worked/">A cheeky sales approach that worked</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.inter-activ.co.uk">Inter-Activ Presenting and Influencing</a></p>
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